Sunday, October 31, 2010

Monolog cap ibu dan anak


It's been awhile...

no mood to write in here....masih tidak serasi bersama gitu

Bagi menaikkan seri pengantin  S2S ini mari saya sharing2 gambar sikit,nak tak?

ini namanya Shawarma,bukan shawl pashmina tau

ini nama doner kebab, dia punya sayur boleh bawak ke esok untuk dibuat salad, punyalah banyak wa cakap sama lu

pizza,memanglah mana2 ada tapi nk dpt yg murah+besar+mengenyangkan xsemua tmpt ada

beli satu hidang boleh makan tiga orang...tibe2 teringatkan yg mkn di dublin tu,sodapp gak

ridikiules betul la uncle bhai tu buat,pekat,likat,manis lemak berkrim...besok jgk nk cari bahan and buat

ini manisan india/pakistan...kami memang peminat walaupun nama xde khan or kapoor kat blkg

cicah coklet sungguh sedapp oh

3 pound boleh buat kenduri anggur

 Amacam, rasa lapar x? cuba skrol blk entri ini ditengah2 malam mcm yg sy sedang buat ini, meroyan mengarang di tengah2 malam...

Hati sungguh kangen sekali sama tempat itu...tempat mana? lu pikirlah sendiri Biarlah rahsia

Patut entri merepek+BM di bologs lama tetapi tegugat dengan function2 super best ni dan sy pun baru sampai dari zaman paleolitik jadi....pardon me eh?

Oh by the way, gambar2 adalah disedut lemak dari incik google....terima kasih google

Ok, rasanya dah naik dah seri bologs ini....nanti mummy rajin mummy hapdet lagi ye

baru umur 11 hari,ada lagi berapa hari lagi sebelum habis berpantang lepasni kita all out ye S2S?




Wednesday, October 27, 2010

Are you the next talented writer?

Shakespeare,Madamme Tussaud London,2010

"Be not afraid of greatness: some are born great, some achieve greatness and some have greatness thrust upon them". - (Twelfth Night,Act II, Scene V)

I salute to all who can write very well and can project their thoughts to the readers especially the ones who can write stories [be it short or novel types]

I'm reading some nice stuffs from my news feed and the writings are coming from friends whom did not show that talent before  *mishmash tui*

Bet they're gonna make fortunes if they go professional,ya know, just like J.K.Rowlings or Jodi Picoult or John Grisham or  Habiburrahman El-Shirazy =)

It would be very nice if I could write like that but I guess, it's just not in my do people get inspiration?

I hold onto this: write from your heart and it'll reach the heart of others   [ tacing la pulak dgn diri sendiri]

My prayers to all those who dream big and dream well, for the benefit of others, may you achieve it and may inspiration be with you like the flowing water, ameen



Tuesday, October 26, 2010


Beloved country is gonna be among the most socialite countries with more pubs,clubs and wordly-hells

and that is, with full authorization from the so-called people with 'power'

What is happening here????

Monday, October 25, 2010


the variation makes life merrier

It was a lot easier when we were a child. We appreciated every single simple things that we encounter

Saturday, October 23, 2010

Aaargh! I'm so stressed out!!!

Assalamualaikum and a nice day to you all,

So, a lil bit dramatic on the title ain't it? There's something that I want to share with you all pertaining STRESS.

First and foremost, I'm pretty much sure that all of you know what is stress right? According to this link, stress is simply a fact of nature -- forces from the outside world affecting the individual. The individual responds to stress in ways that affect the individual as well as their environment. Some may take it positively while others may take it negatively.

What causes stress?
It could be divided into two; external factors and internal factors.

External factors may include the physical environment, including your job, your relationships with others, your home, and all the situations, challenges, difficulties, and expectations you're confronted with on a daily basis.

Internal factors are nutritional status, overall health and fitness levels, emotional well-being, and the amount of sleep and rest you get. To add up [just my opinion], the inner feelings that you think you could handle well,personally but lastly eat you simple words: BROKEN-HEARTED  [ hohoho]

Well, the specific details of stress could be found in the link I've given earlier and I don't want to bore you to death reading the same thing in S2S...The thing that I want to share is somehow, well....TIPS on how to handle stress? 

Bear in mind, I'm no expert but the tips are taken from various real-life experiences, not from me only but from the people I've known throughout my living years.

So, what should you do when you are down with stress?

Guilty pleasure

Heard of it before? I think this would be the most personal favourite by many people. Just go and do whatever that will make you forget the reason why you are stress. Examples?

- read a book  [ maybe lame for some but it works for others]
-ice-cream and junk foods  [ don't be a devotee of it though ]
- be spontaneous and go somewhere foreign  [ money-loaded? feel free to try out]
- take the LRT and buy a ticket to the last station and go back to where you've started  [ don't forget to bring along a book to read or a camera to snap random photos ]
-feed stray cats or visit the animal shelters [this one I read in one of my friend's blog...seems therapeutic enough]
-do some exercises, go jogging with your MP3 on, go rock-climbing, abseiling, you know, bungee-jumping [dies at the thought of it ]....something thrilling and gives you the adrenalin vibes  [ oh no, a sudden flashback of riding the deadly roller-coaster in Thorpe Park ]

what else eh?


-visit the orphanage and less-fortunate people [that way you'll appreciate life better]
-go to the park [ try finding a cosy one...don't wanna end up tighted up even more ]
-watch movies  [ please avoid teary-sad-dying ending ones ]
-dance to the rhythm of your choice  [ oh no, i mean like be alone first, don't go applying for So You Think You Can Dance pulak! ]
-play games

moving on to the most therapeutic ones:

-read the Quran, the stories of our Sahabahs and Sahabiyyahs
-play on Quranic verses or soothing nasheeds
-do additional prayers [solat sunat ]
-Seek forgiveness from Allah as the burden feelings inside you may be a sign of how far you are from Him T_T
-be content at the same time feel grateful that you are still alive and able to do things

Those are just some 100 from 1001 ways of how to handle stress [the non-scientific explanation way ]. Different individuals may have different ways on how to handle stress. One thing, don't let it EAT YOU UP  until there's no way out anymore....

Oh yeah, don't forget to SMILE ^___________________^.... the power of a smile is really enchanting you its the prophet's sunnah summore,right?

So, don't stress2 [ PCK sikit ] people or else pustule will haunt you down  T_T  [ konon2 nk bg nama sedap la ni..huh ]

That's all from me for today,



Friday, October 22, 2010




Farhan Qureshi: [after finding out Rancho topped their exam] That day we learned, when your friend flunks, you feel bad, when he tops, you feel worse. [ a scene in 3 Idiots ]

In life, we cannot expect people to actually understand us. We regard a once stranger to be an acquainted friend just to realize that sometimes they are not sincere with us. People can say that "oh, I am so happy for your success" but actually in their mind " why did she get what I deserved?"

From the above line I bet many would agree especially in whatever level you may be for instance; when you were at school, struggling to get an A for all subjects while the person next to you who sleeps all the time scores the highest everytime. Then, you enter University and you see one or two teacher's pet who always score every subject they take even the fact that you know that sometimes they didn't have to work hard as you did. Later one, you face the work force seeing people getting raises in salary and position while you are still stuck in the same position for 5 years.

The thing is, no matter how "good for him/her" you said you wanted to feel on the outside, on the inside there's a razor blade trying to cut you off with evil anguish

This is a very bad sign indeed. A problem that will kill you with no physical illness, both ways.

One person may feel disheartened and demotivated albeit the fact that he/she tries her best sincerely

Another one feeling slightly envious for the success of whomever they may know and give negative comments instead of a booster

A little advise ,

People, we are not living this temporary life to battle on gaining the best for individual purposes. Whatever battle we encounter, we do it together in a sense that One may actually go to battle so the other party should give their utmost undivided sincere SUPPORT, and not tear them apart with hurtful comments. Yes, hurtful comments sometime works for people to go up higher not wanting to be looked down upon but bear in mind, they have feelings too. Whatever you said earlier are glued in their mind/hearts

I should bear that in mind also.....

Do not feel envious of other's success instead look it as a positive reinforcement, to motivate you on catching your goals. And never forget, you have Allah who listens to you and will give to you what is needed when the time is right. If 'they' can do it, why can't you? have faith in Him okay and don't drag down one who just got their prayers answered.

and if you don't have anything nice to say, just learn how to keep quiet .

It's perfectly normal to feel envious sometimes but don't make that an excuse to hurt the feelings of others, ok?

*Strive together *

A reminder for me, you and all of us



Kyun Ki [mere reasons]

Some of you may have noticed I've changed my blog  [ like duhh obviously ] and questioned why  [lol ]

Well, the reasons are simple:

  • coding-setting-copypasting problems in me old blog
  • fell in love with new installed functions in blogspot  [ I noticed it when I created my business blog ]
  • consider it as a transformation for me upon entering a new challenging life

I'll use the beloved former blog of mine to ramble about not-so-but-kinda personal stuffs whilst in this blog would carry out beneficial purposes [hopefully ]

Adulthood senses are IN right now..hoho

Why Sugar-2-Spice?

Because the comparison of life is like sugar and spices. Sometimes we can be all jovial and sometimes we can be sober or mad. It's like a mixture of how one thing good can turn up bad and vice versa, get what I mean? Emotions are not static or stagnant, they change every 2 minutes [not scientifically proven though ] so...

kopipasta from Google

So, to those who visit S2S, a warm welcoming to you. If you read any of my entries and find faulty facts [especially regarding religious matters, do remind me by commenting, don't wanna mislead people into damnation :p ]

Have a nice day beautiful people!



One mission

Volunteers to Palestine have already arrived in Gaza on 21st of October 2010, a little bit late with all the hustle bustles but alhamdulillah they've succeeded!

may Allah ease their journey

Wish I were among them T_T  

A sudden flash-back of how extra-excited I was in SMIH pertaining this matter

For now, I'll pray to Allah may each and every one of them are blessed  [ and us also ], ameen



Thursday, October 21, 2010

my 20cents

As rambled in my previous blog about me wanting to give my 20cents about the Malaysian Budget 2011, I will give some comments from the perspective of just an ordinary citizen. Having quite some free time because boss hasn't given me any work yet but the PM said that when I will be given work,it'll come in a bulk,like soo many so better I don't ask much and embrace the free time I have right now,wehooo!!


ok,tema bajet tahun ini ialah Transformasi Ke Arah Negara Maju Berpendapatan Tinggi

peruntukan: RM 212 Billion  [ berapa kosong ek? ]

antara benda2 yang telah dicadangkan [ kopipasta je ni ]:

1) Warisan Merdeka - Permodalan Nasional Bhd akan membangunkan projek bersepadu berharga RM5 billion, yang membabitkan menara 100 tingkat yang dijadual siap pada 2020

fungsi? tarikan pelancong? tapi kt dah ada klcc dan tempat2 lain...dan bukankah selalu org dok canangkan pelancong suka datang malaysia sebab rakyatnya yang baik hati dan prihatin,pantai2 yg indah, pulau2 yg best...yg tu xcukup lg eh nk tarik pelancong?

2)Pembinaan projek pembangunan bercampur termasuk kediaman mampu milik bernilai RM10 billion di Sungai Buloh

mampu milik macam mana tu ye? sebab sekarang harga rumah mahal,rumah end lot kat setiawangsa ni pun 1 juta. Oh,saya xduduk rumah end lot ye FYI

3) Duti import kira-kira 300 barangan kegemaran pelancong dan rakyat tempatan di antara 3% hingga 5% dimansuhkan bagi menjadikan Malaysia syurga beli-belah

yg ni my kazen ada buat statement lawak xhengat.Katanya tahun depan kt akan nampak ramai umat manusia di malaysia yang memakai undergarments LV tapi pakai kat luar mcm spiderman. X ke lawak tu kalau betul jadi? nothing's impossible in Msia when it comes to fashion crime. Anyways, tempat mcm KLCC dan Pavillion kira bakal jadi tempat mampu dikunjungi oleh seluruh lapisan rakyat berbilang bangsa la kan? mesti crowded nanti :p

4) Pengecualian cukai jualan ke atas semua jenis telefon bimbit

habislah budak2 kecil pun mintak henfon pada ibu-bapa [skema x guna ibu-bapa?hoho]. saya setia dengan henfon hadiah langkah bendul saya ni tapi N8 Nokia mcm best! Ok wanie, istighfar byk2,yang hang p dok buat research psl phone tu pasaipa?dushhh

5)RM411 juta untuk melonjak ekonomi ke arah sebuah negara berpendapatan tinggi, aktiviti penyelidikan, pembangunan dan pengkomersilan sebagai landasan peningkatan aktiviti nilai ditambah dalam setiap bidang ekonomi

6) Penubuhan Unit Inovasi Khas (UNIK) di bawah Jabatan Perdana Menteri dengan peruntukan RM71 juta bagi tahun depan untuk mengkomersilkan hasil penemuan R&D oleh universiti dan institusi penyelidikan

No. 5 dan 6 bagus....aktiviti penyelidikan patut diberi spot-light di Malaysia sebab bila researchers kita menang awards dan paten dibeli oleh poreners, kan nama Malaysia jugak yg gah, itu yg Msia mahu kan,kan? Hope ada rezeki babuji lg untuk ke merata dunia,ameen

7) RM200 juta untuk perolehan hasil kreatif seperti filem, drama dan dokumentari keluaran tempatan yang berkualiti tinggi

tolonglah buat yang berkualiti sikit...jangan effects je nak lebih tapi xde isi dan isu. Something like Syurgamu Ramadhan would be nice.Ada lagi yg lain tp ai dah lupa...dan tlglah jgn nak dedah sgt, kata Malaysia kan,kalau nk over-exposedkan badan, p berlakon di amerika sana p! [ok,tibe2 teringat satu point dalam entri pertama ttg tgk movie yg seksi2 ni T_T]

8) Gaji pokok minima pengawal keselamatan dinaikkan kepada RM500 hingga RM700 sebulan mengikut kawasan mulai Januari 2011

salah seorang guard di kwsn rmh sy ni nama dia kumar. xde motif pun bgtau. @_@

9) Skim Rumah Pertamaku bantu golongan muda yang baru bekerja dengan berpendapatan kurang daripada RM3,000 sebulan untuk memiliki rumah sendiri

hoyyeah hoyyeah! tapi nak buat investment lain dulu lah.rumah lambat sikit inshaAllah

10) Kerajaan akan menaikkan kadar cukai perkhidmatan kepada 5% kepada 6%

No more fast-foods, fancy restaurants and Johny's T_T

11)RM2.1 billion diperuntuk untuk membina dan menaik taraf jalan luar bandar di Sabah dan Sarawak, selain RM696 juta bagi tujuan sama di Semenanjung Malaysia

ni kena double check dgn orang sana.Takut indah khabar dari rupa saja

12) Sistem pengangkutan MRT untuk Greater KL akan dilaksanan bermula 2011 bertujuan meningkatkan penggunaan pengangkutan awam sehingga 40%

Kasi LRT juga ladies coach ye....dan kalau boleh every station ada officer yg pantau kot2 ada ajnabee xreti bahasa ni....old man+ husband with preggy wife+dad with only children excluded  [haish xkn nk kejam sgt pulak kn]

13)Imbuhan guru KAFA dinaikkan kepada RM500 kepada RM800. Elaun bagi Imam pula dinaikkan daripada RM450 dan RM750

Saving the best for last,

14) Dana Pencen Swasta (PPF) tahun depan untuk memberi manfaat kepada pekerja sektor swasta dan mereka yang bekerja sendiri

Ok,ada banyak lagi sebenarnya. Kata mereka untuk manfaat rakyat tapi kita xtahulah sebab bila tgk yg pergi persidangan di PWTC semua pun kereta mewah hebat2 rumah xtaulah pulak macam mana dan tgk rakyat pulak kalau nk beli kereta mecediz pun mgkn kena simpan duit berpuluh tahun atau beli second-hand atau join MLM [ok, xlawak ]

Tadi terdengar kejap di tv satu ayat ni :

kita jangan obses dengan HAK sebaliknya kita kena mempersiap-siagakan diri kita untuk mempertahan HAK yang ada.

Ok,itu je....awal2 isu haritu macam banyak isi tapi macam malas lah. Sebab "dimana bumi dipijak disitu langit kujunjung" [ hyperbole sikit r lagi sekali ]

Cuma terkilan lah, duit banyak2 tapi orang miskin makin bertambah. Duit banyak2 sponsor lah orang yang kurang berkemampuan pergi buat haji [ ni dok p sponsor org kaya,xpaham betul ], Duit banyak2 kirim kan pada saudara di merata dunia [ perang dan bencana alam ]. Persediaan inner-soul?

Apa2pun, kena dengar cakap kalau x nanti kena buang daerah. T_T

YE,YE...saya tahu...sendiri pun xmempersiap-siagakan diri dengan pemahaman yang betul sibuk nak komen. Kan dah kata tadi, from the perspective of just an ordinary citizen.  [ ayat celf-centered sikit..hoho ]

sebagai penutup, saya lekatkan ini [dari status seorang rakan ]:

“Tiada seorang pun pemimpin yang mengendalikan urusan orang-orang Islam, lalu dia tidak
bersungguh-sungguh menguruskan mereka dan tidak memberikan nasihat (agama) kepada mereka, melainkan dia tidak akan dapat masuk syurga bersama-sama mereka”. (H.R. Muslim)




Did Life treat you well?

Did you get everything that you wanted,

the hand phones that you like?

the cameras that you want?

the university that you hoped for?

the courses that you adore?

the job that you like?

the house/car/properties that you've been saving up for?

the man/woman of your dreams?

the life that you've been imagining since you were little?

Did you or did you not?

Did you question[ed] life as it is?

But life kept on moving,right?

"...But perhaps you hate a thing and it is good for you; and perhaps you love a thing and it is bad for you. And Allah Knows, while you know not." [ Al-Baqarah: 216 ]

and What should we do?

"And when My servants ask you, [O Muhammad], concerning Me - indeed I am near. I respond to the invocation of the supplicant when he calls upon Me. So let them respond to Me [by obedience] and believe in Me that they may be [rightly] guided."  [ Al-Baqarah: 186 ]

Life still kept on moving and every minute of it is a chance for us to keep on praying. Remember, all things permanent in a temporary life isn't permanent at all.

Quoting something nice from tumblr-chan:

“If you think you still have time, think again. You can plan many things in your Life. But you can never plan for the day you will return back to Allah. From that point onwards, you’re left alone to battle your Hereafters. So, start thinking and do something about it, today. Before it’s too late for you, for me and for all of us.”

A kind reminder to me, you and all of us



my third personal blog


Salam and a very good day to members of the floor  [ speech sikit ],

As you see right now, this is my new blog [ and hopefully the last new ],

Had to change because of the problem[Z] I had mentioned in my previous blog

Don't know yet the gist of this blog but hopefully things that opt for more benefits than nonsensicals

The good thing is,NOW,I can kopipasta again,wehooo!


Semua individu pasti akan terlintas untuk melakukan maksiat dan dosa, khususnya yang melibatkan dorongan seksual.  Lantaran itu hasil kerja professional Syaitan dan itu juga ajakan nafsu kebinatangan yang ada di dalam diri kita. Setiap kali terfikir maksiat terbabit pasakkan dalam hati dan minda akibat buruk yang menunggu akibat darinya sepert


Jika Terfikir Lakukan Maksiat...
Zaharuddin Abd Rahman

Semua individu pasti akan terlintas untuk melakukan maksiat dan dosa, khususnya yang melibatkan dorongan seksual.  Lantaran itu hasil kerja professional Syaitan dan itu juga ajakan nafsu kebinatangan yang ada di dalam diri kita. Setiap kali terfikir maksiat terbabit pasakkan dalam hati dan minda akibat buruk yang menunggu akibat darinya seperti :
  1. azab api neraka, 
  2. azab kubur, 
  3. mati buruk (suul khatimah) dalam kemaksiatan 
  4. kejauhan dari rahmat Allah swt serta 
  5. tiada peruntukan Syafaat baginda nabi s.a.w 
  6. dan lain-lainnya.

Memang benar, implikasi buruk ini semuanya berupa hal-hal ghaib, namun bukan itu sahaja, terdapat  banyak pula implikasi buruk di dunia yang mesti disenaraikan di dalam minda dan hati seperti:-
  1. penceraian akan berlaku akibatnya, 
  2. pasangan zina mengandung, 
  3. bunuh anak luar nikah akhirnya mungkin berlaku akibat malu, 
  4. mungkin penceraian akan berlaku akibat darinya, 
  5. apa akan jadi kepada anak-anak ?, 
  6. kejian masyarakat, 
  7. ditangkap basah dan diumum di media, 
  8. adik beradik mengeji, 
  9. akan dijangkiti HIV dan seterusnya AIDS & mati, 
  10. dibuang kerja kerana imej buruk kepada syarikat,
  11. mati ketika zina dan khalwat dilakukan, 
  12. dan banyak lagi boleh disenaraikan.

Pasakkan semua implikasi negatif berbentuk spiritual (ghaib) dan fizikal ini di dalam minda setiap kali nafsu syahwat itu ingin dituruti atau mempengaruhi, harapannya ia nyalaannya akan mengecil.

Panduan Kawalah nafsu syahwat secara ringkas dan padat (tidak mengikut aturan tertib) :-

  1. Fikirkan target kehidupan dan usahalah melaksanakannya, pinggirkan pemikiran berkenaan seks dan syahwat, sedaya mungkin. Sibukkan diri mencapai target tersebut.
  2. Datangkan keyakinan Allah maha melihat apa yang dilakukan di ketika ramai dan sendirian ,Allah swt sedang melihat apa yang sedang kita lakukan.
  3. Sedarkan diri malaikat turut sentiasa bersama kita mencatat apa yang ditulis, diucap dan dilakukan.
  4. Rapatkan hubungan dengan ahli keluarga yang baik dan soleh.
  5. Putuskan hubungan ‘songsang' dan ‘gelap' sama ada yang dibuat secara suka-suka atau serius, yang diperolehi melalui internet atau fizikal, melalui laman chat, email, web dan sebagainya. Putuskan semua medium yang boleh mendorong kepada peningkatan syahwat. Jika berseorangan di hadapan komputer itu boleh menyebabkan pemikiran syahwat naik, maka elakkan diri berseroangan di hadapan komputer. Jika berbual mesra dan makan tengahari bersama dengan rakan sekerja lain jantina itu puncanya, elakkan diri darinya dan makan sendirian bersama yang sama jantina sahaja.  Begitulah seterusnya.
  6. Putuskan hubungan adik, kakak dan abang angkat berlainan jantina kerana ia tidak lain kecuali haram dan pendorong maksiat.
  7. Ubah rutin kehidupan yang mendorong kepada peningkatan syahwat, semua orang tahu dan sedar apa jenis tindakan yang boleh mendorong syahwatnya, ia mungkin tidak sama antara satu sama lain.
  8. Hadiri majlis ilmu dan sibukkan diri membuat target baru seperti membuat blog danmenulis buku dan majalah, menghasilkan karya seni lukisan dan sebagainya. Buat satu target lain dalam hidup yang boleh menyibukkan diri anda untuk mencapainya. Tanpa target dalam kehidupan, keinginan syahwat akan membiak dan berkembang akibat waktu kosong.
  9. Sertai kumpulan bersifat keagamaan yang boleh membawa kepada ingatan kepada Allah, tapi awas elakkan kumpulan songsang dan ajaran sesat.
  10. Sertai kumpulan NGO atau kumpulan berasaskan dakwah dan kegamaan, dengannya membuka ruang mendapat rakan dan sahabat yang baik, selain itu masa kosong dan pemikiran syahwat akan dapat dibendung hasil kesibukan menganjur program dalam kumpulan terbabit. Sekarng, mulakan usaha mencari kumpulan-kumpulan sebegini, sebagai contoh JIM, TABLIGH, ABIM, GAMIS, Persatuan Peguam Syarie, Persatuan Pengguna Islam, Yayasan AMAL, NISA , KARISMA dan sebagainya. Diharapkan dengannya waktu akan lebih terisi dengan program yang baik.
  11. Kalau anda sedang bekerja atau belajar, target untuk cemerlang dalam pelajaran dan kerja anda, dengan itu anda akan lebih sibuk dari biasa dan pemikiran akan lebih terarah kepada tujuan yang digariskan, dengan itu, pemikiran kepada syahwat akan mula menurun atau ruangannya disempitkan
  12. Ziarahi kubur secara kerap agar syahwat menjadi tawar akibat pemikiran kepada kematian.
  13. Fikirkan bahawa anda akan mati ketika sedang melakukan maksiat itu, adakah redha untuk menerima kematian dalam situasi itu?. Fikirkan selalu.
  14. Kalau sedang anda bersyahwat kepada seorang wanita sama ada di kaca internet, tv atau fizikal, segeralah berfikir tentang yang hodoh tentangnya agar syahwat menjadi menurun, seperti fikirkan mulut dan nafasnya berbau busuk, giginya kotor, muntahnya busuk, ada penyakit keputihan dan lendir,  najis tidak dibasuh bersih, ada AIDS  dan banyak lagi. Lawan nafsu yang sedang meningkat dengan mereka cipta perkara yang bertentangan dengan keseronokan nafsu. Ini diperlukan jika pemikiran terhadap alam ghaib dan akibat buruk gagal membendung perasaan.
  15. Kalau komputer dan internet kerap menjadi asbab peningkatan syahwat, perdengarkan bacaan Al-Quran setiap kali di hadapan komputer, InshaAllah dengannya rasa malu akan timbul, kalau tidak banyak, sedikit.  Kalau syahwat masih menggila di hadapan komputer itu, segera berhenti dan keluarlah dari bilik dan melihat awan, langit, pokok dan laut dan ingtakan kebesaran Allah.
  16. Jangan sesekali membiarkan diri terus menerus dipukau nafsu dan syaitan, satu jurus langkah kepada maksiat adalah kunci untuk Syaitan menjerumuskan kepada maksiat yang lebih besar. Apa sahaja perbuatan yang mampu mendorong kepada kehampiran kepada maksiat yang lebih besar mesti disekat segera.  Kerana itu Allah swt mengingatkan :-

وَلاَ تَتَّبِعُوا خُطُوَاتِ الشَّيْطَانِ إِنَّهُ لَكُمْ عَدُوٌّ مُّبِينٌ
Ertinya : Dan janganlah kamu menuruti langkah-langkah Syaitan, sesungguhnya dia adalah musuh kamu    yang amat jelas ( Al-Baqarah : 168 )

17. Menjaga pemakanan, pastikan makan makan yang halal dan bersih. Makanan haram mendorong kepada syahwat yang lebih liar.
18. Memastikan harta yang perolehan adalah dari sumber halal. Sumber haram menambah perisa syahwat kepada yang lebih kuat dan dahsyat. IBarat mutasi virus yang lebih merbahaya kepada kesihatan.
20. Amalkan puasa sunat, zikir secara berdisplin setiap kali (baca zikir mathurat contohnya) selepas solat dan doa sebanyak mungkin semasa sujud di dalam solat agar diberikan kekuatan untuk mengawal nafsu syahwat.
21. Segara beristighfar dan bertaubat walau belum jatuh dalam maksiat yang berat.

وَسَارِعُوا إِلَى مَغْفِرَةٍ مِّن رَّبِّكُمْ وَجَنَّةٍ عَرْضُهَا السَّمَاوَاتُ وَالأَرْضُ أُعِدِّتْ لِلْمُتَّقِينَ
Ertinya : dan bersegeralah kamu kepada keampunan dari Tuhanmu dan syurga yang terbentang seluas langit dan bumi, disediakan bagi orang bertaqwa ( Al-Imran )

Demikian beberapa cara, usaha dan kaedah yang mampu saya senaraikan demi membantu sesiapa sahaja untuk mengawal dan mengekang nafsu. Sekali nafsu sudah merasuk hati dan aqal, seseorang individu akan lupa hakikat sebenar dan ditipu oleh kenikmatan sementara. Lupa kepada keburukan kekal yang menanti. Sama-sama kita ingat-mengingati. Akhirnya Allah berfirman :-
قَدْ أَفْلَحَ مَن زَكَّاهَا * وَقَدْ خَابَ مَن دَسَّاهَا
Ertinya : Telah berjayalah orang yang membersihkan hatinya dan telah rugilah mereka yang mengotorkannya (Al-Shams : 9-10)


Zaharuddin Abd Rahman
29 Julai 2009


Points given and taken, stroked on some points T_T

Hence, our task, is try to avoid such matters. From not knowing to knowing, from forgetting to remembering it again So then actions could be taken. To be a better me, you and all of us,inshaAllah~